If this looks like your marriage, and don't be shocked, the new always wears off in marriage...dis I say ALWAYS? It does.
Every one of us comes to marriage under a false flag. We think sweetness and light...great sex...getting everything you want...man that will last forever, and it doesn't.
So how do you cope? If you have children do you become so child-centric in your marriage you don't really have time for your relationship...it's all about the kids.
Then 20 years down the road and you are empty-nesters and you suddenly look at each other and ask, "Who exactly are you?"
Or you may have gotten your craw full about 6-10 years in and decide the grass is greener somewhere else...just start over and it will all be sweetness and light and fun again.
I got some bad news for you. All relationships start out on fire. In all relationships the new always wears off. You get to change bodies, faces, and voices, but you will face the SAME OLD ISSUES sometimes again and again, hoping it will be better next time.
It won't.
So here's a bet I win every time. if you are willing to learn some new skills about your family of origin, how families always progress, what behavior modification looks like, how to become an assertive listener, how to develop a certainty you can get everything you want from your relationship, how to resolve conflict, how to have great sex again, and how to have a servant's heart...I will win again.
It's possible...not rocket science, but doable.
We can show you how if you'd like.
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